i wouldnt be able to deal with that

So now even if you do leave, you might end up taking them back

idc

Esp when you've been together with someone for a while and it wasn't your decision to leave

Dating also, generally, sucks

Soapy wrote: ↑

1 minute ago

You can 100% rationalize that line away

this why I have my hot take about broke people. Start throwing all kinds of reasons out there why that person cheated

I feel you, I think the same way but I also acknowledge that until you in the paint, you never know

and I'm not gonna marry a whore

the reason would be being a whore

I'm not gonna get cheated on and remain in the relationship

Start looking at reason that led to the cheating and think that if you fix them it won't happen again

I can't

it is but it's also a hard line

You can 100% rationalize that line away

Xixak wrote: ↑

2 minutes ago

I think actually cheating is a hard line

The brain is a powerful thing

Soapy wrote: ↑

2 minutes ago

Its hard to actually walk away from something that you've invested into

I could teach a course on doing this. I’m an expert at it

I think actually cheating is a hard line

So while I've never been knowingly cheated on, i also know that its easy to be like yeah i'd never take a cheater back

yeah ur prob right about that however

yep

Its hard to actually walk away from something that you've invested into

But i'm sure at some point you might have said that the things that your girl did would have caused you to break up

here we go

And not to shit on you xman, i promise i'm not lmao

“He ain’t got no job so I know he hurting right now so I’m gonna let it slide”

More excuses can be made for a partner trying to rationalize

If you're living together, you might not even be able to afford to leave lmao

I think broke people get away with lowered expectations

As a percentage

Caesar wrote: ↑

5 minutes ago

Broke people get away with cheating more often than successful people

volume wise or as a %

Until they can't

So its like if he's checking all the other boxes, they're willing to live with that

Caesar wrote: ↑

6 minutes ago

A generic blonde white British woman lol

might not be that easy for her to get another one then

Broke people get away with cheating more often than successful people

And also some women think that most men cheat