Or in the process of divorcing

They're divorced now

I only said most bc my girl knows of a couple that were on the verge of breaking up and still got married

Xixak wrote: ↑

1 minute ago

what's that.

Idk. I just feel there has to be some costs impact to assigning work at 5 p.m. to be done "EOD"

Soapy wrote: ↑

2 minutes ago

Caesar wrote: ↑

4 minutes ago

Bruh. I'd imagine 99.9% of people don't have that shit in writing because they don't expect to get divorced lol

which is dumb to me bc obv most people that got divorced didn't think they'd be getting divorced

I mean 100% of people getting divorced didn't think they'd get divorced lol

what's that.

Xixak wrote: ↑

3 minutes ago

love getting assigned a fuck ton of new work to do at 5PM for the end of th eday.

I'd love to see the stats on costs overruns for y'all with this strategy

Caesar wrote: ↑

4 minutes ago

Bruh. I'd imagine 99.9% of people don't have that shit in writing because they don't expect to get divorced lol

which is dumb to me bc obv most people that got divorced didn't think they'd be getting divorced

You just don't hear about those. No one talks about mutual splits where two adults sit down and act like adults and separate

love getting assigned a fuck ton of new work to do at 5PM for the end of th eday.

Plenty of divorces are amicable

ah now that im back to doing work remembering how much i hate this fucking job.

Both of your representatives are incentivized to get you as much as possible

Bruh. I'd imagine 99.9% of people don't have that shit in writing because they don't expect to get divorced lol

A divorce is inherently going to be adversarial

Or avoid all that and have it legally in writing

Then when they end up screwing themselves, they start complaining about "only getting half"

That way the other person gets nothing

Instead of the common sense approach in this situation, of selling the house and splitting the proceeds, they'd rather try to fight for sole ownership of said house

And anything else you buy during the marriage is marital property unless designated otherwise. with a prenup, you can flip it which is what we did. anything i buy is mine. anything she buys is hers. we need to declare an asset marital property for it to be that

The issue is that in a lot of cases, people go into divorces trying to fuck each other over

Once y'all both live in there together as a married couple, that's marital property

Can't speak for other states

Caesar wrote: ↑

7 minutes ago

Not if that person purchases the home before marriage

doesn't matter, at least not in the state of Florida

If I buy a house today, get married in two weeks and continue being the primary payer of the mortgage, that's my house in a divorce

Because man I was on crutches for a minute with a knee injury last year & eventually I lost my cool because being helpless is a sad feeling

Not if that person purchases the home before marriage

That's not even

The math ain't mathing

If one person purchases the home (deposit and mortgage, etc.) but the other partners helps out in different ways, at the end of the marriage, the property would be split evenly

I'm sure he did when my sister & I weren't around.

James wrote: ↑

10 minutes ago

I don’t know if you have seen your father cry but I never did growing up. Apparently uncontrollable crying is something that happens after a stroke. It was strange.

actually no I havent I have witnessed my pops go through an ACL tear & a quadricep tear.

As someone that just went through a prenuptial agreement, the problem is in defining 'evenly'

Soapy wrote: ↑

10 minutes ago

I'd be a NPC too lmao fuck that

Nah he became better afterwards. He initiated the divorce.

I've never understood why people have so strong an opinion about assets being divided EVENLY in divorces lol