cause my mind is like very visual

like when we're having sex telling me what she did before or whatever i dont fucking need or want to know just stfu

I told her to stop mentioning it

I can barely handle thinking about my gf being with other dudes before me

Soap lemme be clear a little bit

I actually can't think of one that broke up due to a single instance of it. its usually a compound issue

But I know less couples that broke up bc of cheating than couples that stayed through it

stop.

and then I'm gonna take u back after that lol

oh so now u get a month or two of fucking every "friend" in your phone

Ya know yourself better

taking them back after working up seems even more gross to me

Soapy wrote: ↑

2 minutes ago

So now even if you do leave, you might end up taking them back

very unlikely

i wouldnt be able to deal with that

So now even if you do leave, you might end up taking them back

idc

Esp when you've been together with someone for a while and it wasn't your decision to leave

Dating also, generally, sucks

Soapy wrote: ↑

3 minutes ago

You can 100% rationalize that line away

this why I have my hot take about broke people. Start throwing all kinds of reasons out there why that person cheated

I feel you, I think the same way but I also acknowledge that until you in the paint, you never know

and I'm not gonna marry a whore

the reason would be being a whore

I'm not gonna get cheated on and remain in the relationship

Start looking at reason that led to the cheating and think that if you fix them it won't happen again

I can't

it is but it's also a hard line

You can 100% rationalize that line away

Xixak wrote: ↑

4 minutes ago

I think actually cheating is a hard line

The brain is a powerful thing

Soapy wrote: ↑

5 minutes ago

Its hard to actually walk away from something that you've invested into

I could teach a course on doing this. I’m an expert at it

I think actually cheating is a hard line

So while I've never been knowingly cheated on, i also know that its easy to be like yeah i'd never take a cheater back

yeah ur prob right about that however

yep

Its hard to actually walk away from something that you've invested into

But i'm sure at some point you might have said that the things that your girl did would have caused you to break up