I got family who say that about me and I live an hour and a half away

interesting

There is a strong "You think you're better than us" if you try to move away from the hometown

right I guess generally speaking a sense of community

It's not just other black folk. It's their family.

cause it's like 40% black and LA as a whole is like 8%

a lot of the black people from the south that work in my office have bought houses in Inglewood

I mean to a certain extent if that's where most black folk are, maybe at this point folks just wanna be around other black folk

As a Black man in the South, poverty is the main factor keeping Black folks here for only about 10% of the population imho

ngl that shit is just easier mentally for me

"Are we exclusive?" "What does that mean" etc.

she wanted things locked down early

the girl i dated before this was also white but she was a virgin and I think a bit more religious

that being said might not even be a cultural thing

But that's a problem for everyone

Xixak wrote: ↑

5 minutes ago

like penguins innit, black folk can't fly so they stay in the south

Or maybe poverty keeps them there.

like having "work-husbands"

that are weird to me

there's some concepts that are just normalized among I guess? Socially liberal white women

nothing else to see here

like penguins innit, black folk can't fly so they stay in the south

Caesar wrote: ↑

6 minutes ago

The vast majority of black folks in the US are in the South

What a curious fact

makes sense

The vast majority of black folks in the US are in the South

There is because white women from the South are more integrated with black culture

just from the issues I've dealt with lol

Grew up in Akron, never went to college

than the coastal ones

I will say there's probably more compatibility between black culture and white women from the south from my experience

Even though he about to get put out

But that's why you see man like LeBron married to a black woman for 30 years

Caesar wrote: ↑

11 minutes ago

Whether they are at PWIs or HBCUs or whatever, they'd have women throwing themselves at them

yeah and I think generally speaking white women are raised in a way that makes them more... forward when it comes to these kind of advances

There are just more white women in my purview so the odds of me ending up with one was high

I literally do not discriminate at all when it comes to dating. White, black, asian, latina, brown, whatever it is idc there's attractive women from all races